Good relaxation

There’s a saying that you can’t tell the difference between heaven and hell, and while I’ve never heard one of the good or bad out of my lips, I have heard people much smarter and more worldly than me saying that they do. If you’re on the phone or under long email threads of the negative, it can start to sound like the world is slowly but surely going off the rails.

What’s so fascinating about it, is that the very reasons you’re concerned about the world are just inherent concerns that you’re bringing up about the very things that you need to take care of. This is why I believe that everything and anyone and anything can be explained when you discover why it’s happening. Just because you don’t “feel it” doesn’t mean that it won’t be the first thing you do to slow down your tendency of alienating yourself.

Though I know some people will be filled with pessimism about what change will bring, what they need to realize is that change isn’t something they should never let happen, but if anything this change will make life easier. It’s happened before, and you’re always in the process of becoming healthier and finding the answers to your intractable question of what makes you happy. To turn things around and become a more positive person, you need to be willing to accept what’s right before you hit the rock bottom of despair, despair, and pain. There isn’t going to be a guy standing there a month from now, saying “You have finally answered my question, I found the answer to why it happened, and now we can change the world.”

Work yourself into this mindset. Know that this is when you feel the relief of knowing that you have finally realized what it is and that you have found a direction towards change. That desire to be changed has already started, and now it can be taken to the next level and realized.

There’s no looking back after this change of perspective.